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MISS COUGAR 2010 – I’M A FINALIST!

Posted by admin in Life in America, Romance on 07 28th, 2010

WOW…talk about a surprise email this morning. I was notified that I am one of the four finalists in the Del Mar Miss Cougar 2010 contest and the competition is this Friday!! Yikes! I also just found out that there is yet another voting process with the remaining contestants.

I STILL NEED YOUR VOTES: CLICK HERE TO VOTE FOR FINALIST #4 – SHEILA!!

I entered this contest completely as a goofy to do, but now I seriously want to win! I thank all of you that voted for me in the 1st round from the bottom of my heart! I woudn’t be here without you. I need you again, so please inform everyone you know to vote. Unfortunately, you can only vote one time per day per computer. Please spread the word! The site to vote is: www.delmarscene.com… . VOTE FOR COUGAR #4 – SHEILA

CLICK HERE TO VOTE

Help me to bring home the crown! Thanks! xoxoxoxo

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MISS COUGAR 2010 – VOTE FOR ME! My Cougar History…

Posted by admin in Finding Love, Life in America, Romance on 07 20th, 2010

Hey Everyone,

As those of you that are my Facebook friends know, I am a CERTIFIED COUGAR!! What’s a Cougar you ask? A Cougar is a term for a woman over the age of 40 that dates younger men. Those younger men are referred to as Cubs! Grrrrrrrrrr…

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I was very recently informed about a contest that The Del Mar racetrack is having their 2nd annual Miss Cougar 2010 Contest. Of course, with me being the self-proclaimed ‘Queen of All Cougars’, I had to enter! I am now in 7th place and voting ends on Friday, July 23rd. Here is the link to vote for me – Contestant #12: . VOTE FOR SHEILA – CLICK HERE !!

So how did I become a Cougar? Funny you should ask. Before turning 40 two years ago, I only dated older men. Not just older, but really old! I had MAJOR Daddy issues and only found men that were in their 60′s & 70′s to be attractive/sexy enough for me to date. In fact, one of the best relationships of my entire life was w/my boyfriend of over 6 years that was twice my age. At that time, I would have NEVER considered dating someone younger than me.

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That all changed when I turned 40! I met my first “Cub” by chance in 2008. I went to a ski shop to buy an outfit for an upcoming ski trip and I was helped by an uber handsome young man. He was tall and FINE!! After focusing on me for about an hour, I finally found the right outfit. After he rang up my purchases & giving me a generous discount, he very confidently asked me for my phone number. I knew he was younger than me, but I had no idea how young. I immediately gave him my number and floated out of the store. When he called me, I asked him how old he was. I thought he was around 26. When he informed me that he was 20, I damn near died! I was twice his damn age…WTH!?!?!? I didn’t care. He was more confident and approached me in such a mature way and did I mention that he was FINE AS HELL!! Long story short, I was Very Happy to date him for the time we did. It was one of my most rewarding/fulfilling relationships ever. Ever since then, I have had an almost insatiable desire to date Cubs! My sweet spot age for my Cubs is 24 – 29. Reality, I typically tend to date guys that are 32. I love all men, but I love younger men! They have what it takes to keep up with me! LOL

Hollywood has definitely picked up on the trend. Anyone catch CougarTown on ABC? It is a top rated show for them starring Courtney Cox-Arquette. And who doesn’t know about Demi Moore & Ashton Kutcher being happily married for several years!

Again, I would SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO appreciate it if you voted for me for Miss Cougar 2010! CLICK HERE TO VOTE! I AM CONTESTANT #12 VOTING IS OPEN UNTIL FRIDAY, JULY 23RD! THANK YOU!