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Hey Guys,

It’s been a while. Professionally, I’ve been sort of busy working with my new client and traveling for them. Personally, I am in another period of transition/flux. Not sure what’s going on with me. I’m feeling unmotivated to do much lately and fear programs are running again, arrrrrrrrrrrgh!! I am soooooooo ready to hit the road again, but I’ve got to keep my restless ass still for a few more months and make some more cashola to support my travel addiction. I do not like not having the option right now of being on holiday. What can I do that will pay me massive amounts of money legally without me actually having to do any work??? LOL, I think that is the question that we all would like the answer to. Also, I am now 100% sure that I have adult ADHD. For the past several months, I have had the hardest time staying focused. It has become an INCREDIBLY SERIOUS problem for me at this time and I will be seeking medical attention soon. I’m sensing that Adderall is in my future!! Thankfully, that is the drug that ALL of the Hollywood actresses take to remain skinny so I definitely want to get some. Imagine, a totally focused AND thin Sheila??? Look out now…the world is not ready for that combo!! LOL

Love life: I’ve been spending time with one person lately. We hit it off so well initially, that I put the rest of the harem on the side burner. I’m really not the kind of woman that likes to date a lot of guys at one time, even though I make myself do it. I am incredibly old-fashioned and I enjoy giving one man at a time my attention. Mr. B and I are definitely friends, but we won’t be anything more than that. I adore him and love being around him but he is not my soulmate. Nor am I his – this we are both well aware of. He is one of the few MEN that I have met in my life and I am learning so much from him about how Real Men want to and are capable of treating women. Me not having a father in my life, I was COMPLETELY clueless about the fact that there are men out there that actually WANT to take care of women and love us & protect us if we allow ourselves to receive it. I appreciate you B. so damn much for the lessons & for checking my ass when I get out-of-pocket! LOL Right now, I am completely stuck between wanting to spend time with men and having male attention (physically & emotionally) while having absolutely no strength, energy or desire to meet anyone new. WTF?!?!?! Where do I find a hot guy to come and spend time with me and cater to me when I want him to/how I want him to and then get-the-f*ck-out when I am ready for him leave. That would be an ideal situation!!
Dayum, no wonder I have been single for so many damn years!! Laughing thru my tears!! LOL

One last thing…I finally got around to posting all of the videos I shot while I was in Australia. I really wish I would have shot more . Check them out under the “Videos” tab at the top of the blog.

Until next time, I will leave you with a video representation of what I am CRAVING/MISSING in my life right now!!! I’ve got a few in my stable back in LA that can work it out just like this sexy Mofo! THAT is how you work it!!! Shout out to T.C., J.C. & C.L. ! Dayum, I miss ya’ll! Muah!!!

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My Hair Weave Journey – A New Look!!!

Hi Everyone,

As I blogged about a few posts ago, I made the decision to release the weave for a little while. After taking several weeks to decide what I wanted to do, I stumbled across the world of Dominican hairstylists and their amazing ability to take natural, kinky hair and turn it into soft, silky, swinging hair with just a hair dryer and a flat iron. I was intrigued since I do not want to become addicted to the Cream Crack (relaxers) again and I’ve made the choice to have natural hair. I was able to find an amazing Dominican stylist in Dallas and she worked wonders on my hair today. I am left with an above the shoulder, swingy, chemical free, layered bob that I really like. Now, I do not know how long I will go without my weave as I have several high profile events with multi-millionaires (including Donald Trump) during the month of November. I have found that since I am typically the only Black woman at such events, it is in my best interest to play up my best assests – one of which is my sexy Barbie hair. The weave may go back in at the end of October if I feel like flying to Los Angeles to see my stylist. We’ll see. Until then, enjoy the video diary I did to document this process. Ciao!!

The final day with the weave:

After 7 hours of torture, this is what is left at 4:00am!!!

This is not me, but a VERY accurate representation of what I went thru at the Dominican Salon. And yes, my hair looked exactly like the chick in the video when the process started! Truly amazing transformation!!!:

THE FINAL RESULT!!!!! CAN YOU TELL I LOVE IT??? LOL

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Black Women & Our Hair!

Hey Everyone. I hope all is well. I’ve been a bit quiet with the posts for the past couple of weeks. That is for a few reasons. First, I had to solve a money shortage problem, so I was a bit stressed. I spent too much damn time playing and not enough focus on handling my business and it was not pretty. I’m happy to report that I am in the beautiful flow of cash once again. Just got 4 figures deposited into the Paypal account the other day and many more deposits where that came from. Dayum, I’ll never let my situation get like that again. Mama don’t do stress! Second, I’ve been very busy with my internet marketing business. I’ve come up with an amazing product idea and I’ve been working on it. I was targeting an October launch, but I’ve decided to wait until after my birthday as I focus on finding the right JV partners to help with my launch. I also have a new amazing consulting gig in the Marketing area that has my client flying me all over the country. Ton’s of travel coming up. Also, other entrepreneurial stuff as I work toward my uber-huge financial goal to be reached by early November. A Sistah is on the Grind for the first time in over a year & a half and it feels kind of good. I had truly forgotten what working felt like. Too funny! Third, I have a new “friend” that has been keeping my attention hostage. We have been having a ball getting to know each other on a personal and professional level & I look forward to our friendship growing. Enough on that.

So, what is this talk about Black Women and our hair & what does it have to do with my travel exploits? Well, it has everything and nothing to do with my exploits. I’ll explain. As you all know, as I do not make it a secret, I wear a weave. I have done so since I was 15 years old and a Sophmore in high school. I never stopped wearing a weave until my 40th birthday 2 years ago, when I finally mustered up the courage to wear my own hair in public. It was a 3 year struggle to gain the courage to release the weave as I had become brainwashed as to what is the beauty ideal in our society, especially in the Black Community. I love the versality and the look that wearing 18-24 inches of Indian hair gives me, but as I was turning 40, it was time for a change. To be clear, I do not, nor have I ever worn a weave because I do not have hair. This is a very common misconception – that Black Women wear weaves because we are bald-headed. This is total bullshit for many of us. My own hair is super thick and past shoulder length when it is relaxed. The issue for me is that I do not have the “Barbie fullness” /Diva look that a weave gives me. Also, styling my own hair is a time consuming, expensive biyotch!! I have to go to the beauty shop weekly to look sharp. With my current weave, I have not been to the beauty shop in 6 months and I still look fierce!! Honey, I just wash and wear and watch the bouncy, curly curls appear. Yay expensive Indian Hair from Extensions Plus!!! With my own hair, it is a 3 hour ordeal of wash, dry, flat iron or curl. If I do it myself, it looks homemade and funky. Only a stylist can do it justice and that is $50.00 damn dollars and 3 hours a week in the salon chair. Dayum!!! Also, as it pertains to my worldwide travels, I cannot expect to be in some damn foreign country looking for a Black hairstylist. The only place that worked for me was during my 2 months in Paris, Summer 06, when I had the pleasure of being styled by Mr. Marc Clement. He was expensive as hell, but he hooked my custom made, Italian Silky weave up while I was there. LOL Me deciding to have 22 inches of Indian Hair installed before my Australia adventures was a huge blessing. No hair issues at all in the land of “no Black hairstylists or black hair products”. I did eventually find some, but it was after 2 damn months of searching.

As I approach 42 in the next few weeks, I am feeling the need for a major change again, so the weave is coming out again. Don’t know for how long. I’ve been inspired by Tyra Banks, who this season on her show,has decided to wear her natural hair most of the time. She has very nice natural hair, but as with me, it is no where near as thick and “Barbie like” as with her $5k lacefront wigs and weaves. There is also the hairline issue. As a longtime wearer of weaves, one of the extremely unfortunate byproducts is the thinning of or total loss of the hairline. The pulling of the sewn in or glued in hair weaves/lacefronts on the very delicate hairline causes it to disappear. I am very self-conscious about my own forehead, so you will continue to see lots of styles with bangs. Like Tyra, I’ll work to wear my own hair most of the time and the rest of the time, I’ll rock the wigs. I’m hoping to stay out of the weave until I leave the country again in late January. We’ll see. I’ll make sure to document this entire process on video and pictures so that you can experience this with me. Ya’ll will crack up when you see my HUGE, old school Michael Jackson afro when my weave is out. Total Hilarity!

Until then, enjoy the trailer for Chris Rock’s new film, ‘Good Hair’. It truly explains what we as Black
Women go thru for the sake of our hair.

Tyra Banks takes out her weave!!

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Getting Clear…

Also lovingly referred to as “Clearing Your Shit”! Hey all. I haven’t been inspired to write for a few weeks. I’ve been busy with boys, amazing new friends, being social, figuring out the optimal avenue for wealth creation, finding a Mentor, fighting my urge to hit the road again and go back to Australia and removing a major block in my 2nd Chakra that was preventing a lot of things from occurring in my life. Gonna ramble a bit with this post, so bear with me.

One of the many, many beautiful Lights that has come into my life since I have been Austin is my Friend Bart Sharp. He is one of the sweetest, most beautiful rays of energy I have met in a long time. Bart is a highly enlightened Energy Worker and with me being an Precog Empath (google it), we had an instant energy connection. After spending some quality, fun time together, it became clear that I needed to enlist him to help me clear some major blocks in my life. Without going into too much detail, we connected last week and had the most Amazing clearing session I have ever experienced. Bart’s highly tuned abilities and clarity about energy and his ability to create such a caring, loving and trusting space allowed me to uncover hidden entities, energies and other “stuff” that had been buried for a VERY long time. The difference in me since our session has been absolutely incredible. There is this childlike energy coursing thru my body that come out in my huge, infectious smile. I find that I am experiencing, feeling, loving and connecting with people with a calm intensity I have never felt before. It is very powerful. Thank you Bart for your friendship!

I’ve spent the past 5 years “clearing my shit” and this experience was just another amazing step in that journey. I found the video below that describes where I have been in various stages in my life as I chose to hide my Light. The guy give some great insights. Enjoy!

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